Breaking one off

Today, after arguing with one of the men who claimed attraction to me, I decided to break off all contact with him. This must be the one most wise things I’ve done in a long time. This man that I was in contact with, had for months, been showering me with praises and showing great attraction to me, making me feel great. However, I don’t exactly have a great deal of attraction to him. I had made it clear to him from beginning that I have a boyfriend, and that I will not leave my boyfriend or anything for him. He understood that, but he was really persistent and sometimes rather pushy. He flirted a lot and tried to romance me into giving in to him. Thank goodness I did not. However, this guy some times can just read girls. Many times I fell for his charm? I told him many things that I shouldn’t…basically I was beginning to get emotionally attached to him. Needing this companionship, loving the time spent together. However, today I just decided to break it off clean. He wanted a symbiotic relationship, whereby I fulfil him physically and he will fulfil me emotionally. I found that totally morally unacceptable…all I wanted was just be friends. Friends who care sincerely and just able to talk at times…but he wanted more. I argued with him for about 2 days why I can’t do it. He forced me to a corner to make the choice…decide to go ahead or go. It wasn’t exactly a hard decision. So instead of lingering on and just letting this conversation go on and on and on again next time, I decided, let’s just move our own ways. This is not worth it. Not mentally, emotionally, spiritually. Not worth the toll it takes on my head and heart. I love my boyfriend, no one else.