Bad girl

My boyfriend thinks the two weeks of infidelity with the other guy, an emotional affair, does not constitute an affair. So men, affairs means getting physical, or does it?

I had been a bad girl. Ever since then, I believe I have had a couple more affairs. For me, affairs are defined as sharing private matters with another man that I don’t want my boyfriend to find out. Obsessing over this other man, thinking of him more than my boyfriend. That constitutes an affair for me. An emotional affair. Why do I do it? I think my boyfriend is meeting my needs fairly already. However, the bad girl in me sometimes seek the excitement outside of the comfort of his arms. I’m finding the praises of strange men sweet to the ears, the attention I get, they get to my head. I know the terrible effects having these affairs will do to my relationship with him. Why do I still do it? Any counselors out there?